Problems are the most things not expected to be
present in our lives, for an individual or for a family. In fact, the arrival of
the problem could come by itself without being sought or invited.
What you should do for the sake of yourself or
your family members is:
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Do not ever panic when you are hit by a problem that actually makes you unable to think
clearly but behave quietly and think about the solution of your problem.
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Do not be emotional when problems happen
This might be difficult to do if you are temperamental and irritable.
When you vent your emotions, it actually makes you unable to think calmly.
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Do not haste to face a problem. Someone who is facing a problem will usually
act in haste. Hasty deeds are usually done without consideration and then new
problems arise.
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Think positively then you can easily accept a problem as a trial or any way that you are
more mature. With positive thinking you can also think critically to find a
solution.
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Take out the ideas in minds which might be able to help you out of the problem. To more easily
think you should be more creative to find information, and process the
information as a way out of your problems.
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Discuss the problems faced. If you are not able to face and overcome your
problems, the next you have to do is to discuss or share a story about your
problems with the one you think you can understand problems and provide solutions.
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If you have been less close to God, you try to get closer to Him. The most
important thing is not just to get closer to God when you are in trouble, but
try to do it at any time.
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Do not be easily discouraged. Feel sure your problem will never be resolved
even be getting worse. Plug in your heart that if you can get past this problem
then you will get happiness beyond the pain of your own or family problem.
