Family Collaboration

Families are similar to a team. Each family member individually possesses personality, skill, and role to the family team, simply as each sports player has a particular position on the team. Wholly the family has a history and ambitions, just as the team collaborates to win a game. One player may appear more important than others. Nevertheless, one individual cannot play the game alone. We need our families to assist us live through the joyful, pleasant, unpleasant, and painful times.

Providing time for learning, trying out things, or taking defeat is a vital role of the family. As a family team, the members can help each other gain through difficult time. Family collaboration or teamwork can balance one individual’s difficult time with other family member’s powers. To encourage the collaboration of your family try to focus on what the roles of each member are by describing or drawing the individual’s role in the family. Get all the family members together around a table or on the floor. Ensure each individual can write or draw on a piece of paper. Giving suggestions is okay like paying bills, controlling allowances, caring for the family, particular tasks, or other roles. Recognize as many as possible.

Motivate each member talk about the distinctive roles he heard about others and themselves. Share how the members feel the reactions and observations.

Discuss general themes in roles. Seek recurring themes and record them. Ask whether there were common or the same roles with more than one family member, whether most of all  members agreed or disagreed, why, and why not. The next is identify the trends and make inferences as well as stress the tenets applying to real life. Ask questions like how the roles pertain to one another in your family, how the role change over time, what vital things to recall. Eventually focus on how the new learning could be implemented in daily situations, discuss how this family activity can be useful in the future, evolve individual or family goals for behavior change, how the family members think their inference might be different few years from now.

Family with Great Joy

Almost all couples who will get to or who have been married are indeed in need of advice for happy marriage survival. Household is a place where people with different gender will live with others, with all the differences, and will encounter many obstacles. A couple feels surprised by the existing differences; even many of married couples are not able to cope with the marriage obstacles. But of course it does not mean the problem cannot be overcome. Here are some happy household tips you can try to apply:

• The first thing to manifest a happy family is by recognizing your partner as much as possible before entering the gates of marriage. It is mandatory that you do not regret later on. You should know very well how the nature, the daily life, the family, etc. of your partner are.

·        When entering the stage of marriage, you and your partner should understand the purpose of marriage. By understanding the purpose of marriage you can certainly minimize the possibility of bad things in the household.

• One of the most important tips for a happy family is establish two-way communication. Routine communication can make the couple always understand each other and also lead to closer relationship.

• During communication, attitude should also be considered. Nice and polite speech is will certainly create a warm atmosphere. Smiling face or mimicry is definitely going to keep households away from negative things.

• A sense of tolerance and understanding is every pair’s must-have. Feeling like it would keep you out of selfish attitudes which could undermine household.

• Always work together in any case. Compact couple would be more convenient to undergo household life. For example, when a wife has a lot of housework, the husband could step in to lend a hand. In addition to the work can be finished, the intimate relationship between the two can always be intertwined.

• Always relenting and forgiving each other is also a happy family tip. When a couple makes a mistake, they should be heartened to forgive each other.