A family or a household is a group of people to whom the individuals in it are closest, with
whom they
are most convenient, and
for whom they
have the greatest love and deepest care. Ideally, it is recognized that individuals could always rely on their family, share their thoughts and feelings, turn to
them for encouragement,
and depend on
them for
help when they are down
and out. The family
keeps the members in it strong when they are weak, positive when they are in
despair, grant them feedback needed. Perfectly, the family is the cohabitants’
refugee and their most essential relationships, namely parents, kids, siblings,
and partner.
Certainly, the fact is that many people, a
family is not as ideal as described; instead it is correlated with distress,
anger, misunderstanding, unbalance, unmet desires and hopes. Even for those
whose families are commonly close and supportive, the situation and condition
are not always flawless, and might be very hard time, challenging,
disappointing, and painful.
From little anger to buried resentments, dramatic disputes to guilty feeling, rage and
disappointment the family members did not even recognize they had, their
families – becoming so
close to whom they are, knowing one another so long, yet they are never able to
live till the unlikely ideal – frequently bring up the most extreme emotions they undergo, for better
or worse.
What is coming up is a family problem. However,
this difficulty is also an advantage. No individual is responsible for the
family problem, though one individual frequently gets the blame. It means that
everybody must collaborate to obtain solution. The need to collaborate is a
challenge. Nevertheless, it is also a very good opportunity to consolidate
family ties and interaction. Well, try to cooperate to discuss and to solve the
family problems
