Caring for One Another in Our Family

All young children, adolescents and parents require to be praised and affirmed by those particular members of their family. The younger kid develops positive feelings about himself from those giving care. The adolescent empowers his or her self-concept from the healthful statements or signal showing care. In healthful families, underpinning family members is one of the bonding pillars. You must allow your family members hear extolling and feel affirmation from the family members. Try to do repeatedly the followings especially while family members are trying new skills or require special attention.

The first is get the family members to act a skill or talk about how they feel at a particular time in their life such as a young child dressing oneself for the first time, a teenager showing under school pressure, or parents having many things to do. Listen, pay attention, and question to show family care. The next is do sharing reactions and observations by having each individual talk about what they underwent. Ask questions pertaining to how they feel doing the activities, what the hardest parts were, what they like best, what they learnt about themselves or about family. Then talk about themes, problems and issues and motivate the family members to tell positive things dealing with new skills, whether there were common or similar learning, and how the family members reacted. Conclude what you have done. Emphasize the tenets applying to life facts and concentrate what is essential to your family. Eventually focus on how the new learning could be carried out in everyday situations and how the learning has been distinctive from the previous to the present condition. Families showing care one another feel about each other’s well-being. They see they can rely on each other for motivation and support.