Dealing with Family Problems

One of the most difficult problems to face with respect to household relationships is that you do not control the whole relationship yourself. Whether the relationship evolves or perishes does not depend on you alone. When serious family relationship problems are found, it is normal to try a control strategy. You attempt to obtain another individual to overcome.  Once in a while this method works, particularly if your request and the other individual are both reasonable. Yet, many times it only leads to disappointment. On the other hand, if you cannot alter the other individual, perhaps you ought to just take them as they are. That is another strategy which works once in a while, but this one could lead to disappointment as well and even anger if your needs are not being fulfilled.

You must require the best possible solution. Family members are the most beautiful, believable, and helpful people on the earth. You might get some disputes with them but it is a matter of point of opinion change and not the feeling change for one another.

The followings are some steps which may help to cope with family problems:

·       Try to analyze the problem first not from only your view point but from all others' view points as well. This is to accommodate all alternative views. Then find out which one is the best.

·       Get all possible solutions. But prioritize the most possible one.

·       Note down all possible solutions on paper and rate them. Consider calmly, not emotionally and try to gain the most positive solution.

·       Discuss all ideas with all family members in spite that every family member owns different level of knowledge. One is the same as or better than the others.

·       Do not ever think negatively and never think about abandoning your family.

·       Agree to the decision where everyone obtains some kinds of positive for themselves