Avoid Getting Divorced

Everyone hopes his or her wedding is always in happiness. Happiness or unhappiness depends on each spouse, for it is the couples that will control the family condition. Basically every couple does not want to experience divorce in their household and wants the marriage to be everlasting. Therefore, every marriage should have a key to achieve the happiness and longevity. The followings are three keys to have a lasting and happy marriage:

1. Create a happy marriage

A happy marriage does not mean there is no contention. It will be questionable whether the marriage is happy or not if there is no a quarrel. Why is that? It is because the quarrel or fight usually occurs due to misunderstanding then lacking of no communication. Thus, the arguing will lead to discussing each of resentment and eventually will find out why. Usually a quarrel will make a couple get closer together. However,quarrels should not be encouraged. Frequent fights could be leading to a serious problem.

2. Have special time for being together.

If you are a busy couple, try to make free time for your spouse. You could use the free time to go to a place that you like, doing a hobby or pleasant activities together such as cooking, washing clothes together, and so forth. With this free time you can understand your spouse more and your understanding each other can preclude and avoid getting divorced.

3. Have no secrets.

Since a marriage couple was acknowledged, there should have been no more secret. Why? Because if there is a secret and there is something covered, the spouse will feel suspicious and not believe each other anymore. But that does not mean if you already know your spouse’s secret, you can easily divulge it to anyone. This should not happen, because the secret of your partner is your secret as well, and vice versa. By keeping your spouse’s secret you can avoid divorce.