For those of you who already got married and have
children, maintaining a
harmonious relationship with
the kids is a happy
family tip that you
cannot ignore. Harmony
and happiness of
a family cannot be separated from
the good relationship between parents and children.
Attitudes or behavior
of the parents towards the kids when they are doing routine activities such as playing,
learning, shower, go to school, or
going to bed should be appropriate for the children’s character.
Here are some tips
in keeping a good relationship with the children:
• Apply a democratic
parenting in which the communication
between parents and children is going in
both directions. This will
make the parents understand
the ability of the child, and the child can
understand the will of their parents.
• Interact frequently with
the child in any case such as while
playing, studying in the house
driving to the school,
or going to bed. Accompanying
the child in all things can make him
know that his
parents are very fond of him.
• No matter how busy your
work, take time for your kids.
Many cases happen where a child is being
naughty or caught
up with the wrong crowd simply
because they do not get the attention of the family.
• Penalties or punishment sometimes are necessary to be given when the kid is breaking the rules seriously. However, the
good judgment is of course
not physical punishment
such as hitting or
slapping. Give severe
sanctions enough for children but the sanctions still aim to make them conscious.
For example, the kids should not be
watching television in a certain period of time because they got
bad test scores.
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